Assert if operations on keep_alive_queue and active_queue are not thread-safe

The `vc->add_to_keep_alive_queue()` is called by:
  - Http1ClientSession::release()
  - Http2ClientSession::cleanup_streams()
  - Http2ClientSession::release_stream()

And the `NetHandler::remove_from_active_queue()` is called by
`vc->add_to_keep_alive_queue()`.

The NetHandler::keep_alive_queue and NetHandler::active_queue are
internal queue of NetHandler. We must have acquired the NetHandler's
lock before doing anything with them.

When reenable a HttpSM from plugin, the HttpSM would be run into ethread
that different from client_vc lives because TSHttpSMCallback is
scheduled by `eventProcessor.schedule_imm()`.

(cherry picked from commit c929ed6fdee34a67529b55f9fe1c47d449ee854f)
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