IMPALA-14787: Add support for Redhat 10 and SLES 16

This picks up a toolchain with Redhat 10 x86_64 support:
 - Redhat 10 only includes JDK 21 and above in the package
   repositories. This defaults to JDK 21 for Redhat 10.
   IMPALA-15108 is the epic to track full JDK 21 support.
   Initial tests didn't see any issues with JDK 21.
 - It modifies bin/bootstrap_system.sh to support Redhat 10.
   Redhat 10 doesn't have the same "family" structure for
   java alternatives, so it needs to specify the actual
   path instead. There are also differences in how to
   use the epel repository.
 - Redhat 10's "uname -p" returns "unknown" to be more POSIX
   compliant. We use this to detect ARM in several places, so
   this replaces "uname -p" with "uname -m" (machine), which
   provides equivalent functionality.
 - This drops logic for some unsupported distributions from
   our Docker image logic (Redhat 7, Ubuntu 16/18).
 - Since we applied a patch to opentelemetry-cpp, some OTEL tests
   that depend on that version number needed to change to
   either strip the patch number or accomodate it.
 - To make it easier to test new distributions, this changes the
   logic in bin/jenkins/all-tests.sh to only use ninja if the
   system has ninja.

This has not tested SLES 16 yet. Redhat 10 ARM support will
be added in IMPALA-15104.

Testing:
 - Ran a core job on Redhat 10. It bootstraps and runs all the
   tests. There are a few failures that we'll need to address
   separately, but broadly, the job is functional.
 - Ran core job on Ubuntu 20

Change-Id: I50acc5fbb4968e4310c4f84dde1d5b931b0385ec
Reviewed-on: http://gerrit.cloudera.org:8080/24459
Reviewed-by: Laszlo Gaal <laszlo.gaal@cloudera.com>
Tested-by: Impala Public Jenkins <impala-public-jenkins@cloudera.com>