[Release] Fix stable branch with correct versions and required fixes (#336)

Cherry pick to stable.

We did not update the cookbooks from 12.0.0 to 13.0.0 and when updating
from 12.0.0 to 14.0.0 the script missed the following version updates
because I used:
`./dev/release/01-bump-versions.sh 13.0.0 14.0.0` instead of
`./dev/release/01-bump-versions.sh 12.0.0 14.0.0`
Manually update the missing updates to run cookbooks consistently for
14.0.0.

The fix for 
* https://github.com/apache/arrow-cookbook/issues/331

Is also required for 14.0.0.

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Co-authored-by: Alenka Frim <AlenkaF@users.noreply.github.com>
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